Friend are people we consider closer than acquaints. We also have best friends (BF or BFF). Our friends say that they will always be there for us through good and bad. But being friends with lots of people cause problems. When one friend is mad at another friend, you always get stuck in the middle, and being in the middle always hurts you more than it does the two people fighting. But every friendship has its ups and downs.
When you feel like you are growing apart from a friend, a friend that is your best friend, it feels like you have a hole in you. A big hole that makes you feel vulnerable. You think its your fault, but can you ever really know? I’m sure you were both at fault in some way or another. You see the signs of a failing friendship and it makes you sad, but you don’t know what to do. I say if the relationship was meant to be it will work out, but if it doesn’t then it wasn’t meant to be a life long friendship. But thats ok. You will have so many friend, some best friend that you’ll be friends with till you die or friends that you see once a month. Some one said friendships are like seasons, we have plentiful seasons and we have scarce seasons. But what we make out of them shows your true character. You will always have one friend, God. God is always there for you and will never leave you. Take comfort in that.
So when you go through the ending of a friendship, remember that there is always a new friend waiting around the corner for you. Even if you can only count your true friends on one hand, thank God that you have that many.
4 comments:
You have such a huge ♥!! Don't always take the loss of a friendship personally, like you said in your blog - seasons change & friends/friendships change. Just be yourself & be true to yourself & the friendships that remain will be true & good. I'm not saying that it won't hurt sometimes, because it will, but you know the One who won't ever let you down & that is the important thing that you will bring to all the friendships that you have in your life.:) I like your blogs!!
Friendships. It's funny how so much meaning can come out of that little word.
oh lexie i have such a hard time with friendships. this is such a sore subject that ive been sitting here trying to think about what im going to write and i have been totally blowing off my graduation speech. i cant seem to hold on to any friendships... oh i wish that some of my friends could be in mr. k's bible class so they would understand why i do what i do. its tinks to think about but even as im writing this (crying FYI) im getting texts from people that i thought were my friends but i guess everyone will let you down one time or another :_-(
lexi i love you!!
good job with this =]
- carlie
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